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Find Your Happiness And Then Find Better Relationships

Are You Happy In Your Relationships? Your happiness is important. Not just because you deserve it, but because when you’re at your best everything else in your life is, too. Happiness is key. In life we constantly have to ask ourselves if we’re happy. Are we happy with work? Are we happy with ourselves? Are we happy with our relationships? Especially now during an enlightened age, more and more people are asking themselves what it means to be happy, and if all aspects of our lives are serving this purpose. If you’re in a relationship now and are questioning weather you’re …

Try A Relationship Contract To Up Your Dating Game

Sign A Love Contract, Keep Your Promises A relationship contract is a new idea that might improve your overall dating experience. Brainstorm fun things to do with your partner, and stick to them. Ever wish that you could pull out an old recording of something that your partner promised you? You could swear up and down that they told you something or promised you something, but you have no proof. Well, how about signing a relationship contract together? It might sound crazy, but it’s actually a great way to hold yourselves accountable for the things you say when you’re happy, horny …

Try Holding Off On Getting Intimate On The First Date

Should You Wait To Have Sex? If you’re used to rushing into sex, it’s okay to switch it up. Try holding off on inviting a new lover over for some naked wrestling, and take it slow. Sex is amazing. We all know this, but it’s okay to wait. It’s okay to say no until the third date, and it’s okay not to have it at all. In a recent study, about 60% of men said that if a girl slept with them too soon in a relationship it would be a deal breaker. The double standard is that women know that …

Dating Someone Who’s Overly Nice Can Be A Blessing

Are Nice Guys Too Nice? Some people are instinctually attracted to jerks. If you’re one of them, maybe it’s time to try dating one of the nice guys. You might like the change. The other day a single friend told me that they met a younger cub online and is excited about it because he seems really nice, but said ‘Not too nice I hope’ following her excitement. I sat and thought about what that meant. A new term has been coined for guys who are too nice – Cinderfella. What does this mean? Essentially it means that the guy is …

Have Better Relationships When You Stop The Comparisons

Is It Healthy To Compare Your Relationship? No two relationships are the same, and never will be. Enjoy the one that you’re in, or build the one you want without comparing it to someone else’s. We are all guilty of comparing our relationships to either someone else’s in our lives, or to the ideals set out for us in the media. We’re on social media comparing our lives and relationships to those around us, and we all need to stop. Why? Well the obvious answer would be because it’s not healthy, but the real reason is because nothing is what it …

More Is Better When It Comes To Open Relationships

Is Polyamory For You? Dating multiple partners can be fulfilling in many different aspects of your life. You don’t have to settle down, and no two days will be the same again. First of all, it’s okay to want to date multiple people. Monogamy isn’t for everyone and there are a lot of people out there that don’t want to be committed to just one person. If that sounds like you, you can find the perfect matches seeking the same thing online, or in person if you’re lucky. Not sure how well the pick up line ‘would you like to enter …

Traditional Weddings Are Becoming A Thing Of The Past

Should You Downsize Your Nuptials? Weddings are changing and that means your big day can be exactly what you want it to be. Think outside the box with a partner willing to try something new. Lately I’ve heard a lot about couples skipping a big wedding in exchange for world travel. They are asking for monetary gifts to put towards a life changing honeymoon vacation instead. Back when everything was cheaper, it made more sense to spend an astronomical amount of money on a wedding that lasted one day… Now, with the amount of money people don’t have as it is, …

Set Better Boundaries For Successful Relationships

Are Your Friends Too Involved In Your Relationships? It’s easy to let other people weigh in on what we should and shouldn’t be doing in our relationships. Setting boundaries allows you to take charge again. We all have that one friend who can’t wait to say ‘I told you so’ when one of our relationships fail. Is it fair of them? Maybe not, but our friends think they have our best interests at heart. There comes a time when a little phrase like that can turn into something bigger. If you feel like you know what’s best for you and your …

How To Start Dating Again When You’re Also A Parent

How To Date When You Have Children When you have kids dating can be tough, but it’s not impossible. It’s easy to find the right person with online dating. You can pre-screen before date #1. If you already have children and are entering into a new relationship, it might be a touchy subject. Assuming that you and your new partner have already had the talk, and you’re both comfortable with the situation, the focus then is what to do next. If you’ve never been in a relationship with kids from a previous relationship, things can be tough. There could custody battles, …

Game Days Are Better Spent With Your Significant Other

Inviting Your Partner To The Game There’s something so fun about watching a big game with someone you’re dating. Spend the next game day with your boo and some friends and see for yourself. So, maybe you’re not a sports fan…let’s be honest, not all of us are, but spending game day with our partners can be a great way to keep the chemistry going. We all have different passions that we follow, or participate in, and for many people, following our favorite sports teams is one of those passions. Sure, if you’re not into football or hockey or baseball (or …